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Not Here to Be Loved (Je ne suis pas là pour être aimé)

Movie · 2005 · 15 people

Stéphane Brizé directed the 2005 French comedy-drama Je ne suis pas là pour être aimé (Not Here to Be Loved in English, Aşkın Dansı in Turkey). Moving between drama, comedy and romance, it tells in a warm, understated tone how dance awakens a middle-aged man whose life has sunk into routine. It opened in France on 12 October 2005 and in Turkey on 21 April 2006, and runs about 90 minutes.

The central character, Jean-Claude Delsart, is played by Patrick Chesnais. Fifty years old, he is a bailiff whose wife has left him, and he spends every weekend visiting his grumpy father (Georges Wilson) in a retirement home. One day, looking out of the window, he notices a dance studio in the building opposite, is deeply struck, rushes over and signs up. Dancing transforms his whole life and brings him together with Françoise (Anne Consigny), who is about to be married. Lionel Abelanski appears as Thierry, and Cyril Couton is also in the cast.

Brizé wrote the screenplay with Juliette Sales, and TS Productions produced it. The music is by Christoph H. Müller and Eduardo Makaroff. The film was also shown at the 25th Istanbul International Film Festival.

DirectorStéphane Brizé
Production companyTS Productions

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Georges Wilson Georges Wilson Film actor · died at 88 Lionel Abelanski Lionel Abelanski Actor · 62 years old Patrick Chesnais Anne Consigny Cyril Couton Olivier Claverie Anne Benoît Hélène Alexandridis Geneviève Mnich Marie-Sohna Condé Stéphan Wojtowicz Pedro Lombardi Geraldin Rojas Pascal Praud Isabelle Spade

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Cinephile Looks at script, editing and directing choices; keeps a distance from formula films.

Brizé turns the film's understated tone from a weakness into a method: the shifts between drama, comedy and romance happen through small slides rather than loud turns. Dance is, in my view, the film's smartest choice, letting a character who struggles to express himself open up through his body rather than through words. Yet quiet storytelling of this kind easily turns static when the rhythm slips, and the film edges towards that line at times. Making Françoise about to be married is a somewhat familiar screenwriting move that hands the romance a ready-made obstacle. Still, it is a worthwhile piece for anyone looking for a restrained adult drama that avoids grand gestures.

History & Society Lens Asks about the period, the social background and what the work reflects.

The film looks at midlife loneliness within the everyday routine of the French middle class. Making Jean-Claude a bailiff is a meaningful choice: his job has him entering people's lives uninvited, someone nobody expects to love. The title can be read through that professional identity too. The weekly visits to his father in a retirement home sketch a society where elderly care has moved from the family to institutions; for Turkish viewers that arrangement may feel both familiar and foreign. The restrained storytelling shows these issues as part of ordinary life rather than dramatising them.

Family Viewer Asks whether the whole household can watch it; cares about humour and heart.

A calm, warm story for grown-ups. It is about separation, loneliness and a difficult relationship with a grumpy father. Young children may find it slow and dull. The romance involves a woman who is about to be married, which suits teenagers old enough to talk it over. A life changed by dancing is a lovely message, though. Best enjoyed by adults and older teens together.

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